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I’ve done many things in my life including being in a band in the 90’s, having a record contract, been travelling, had a child, became a widow.


I like many a thing but not just one thing if you know what I mean. I have lots of interests. I work for myself as a gardener/plant designer. I looked after my husband through his cancer diagnosis until he passed away in 2016.

How I feel about myself now often varies. I’m generally happy single and doing my own thing. I’ve always cherished my freedom. I hate to feel controlled and find being in a relationship often consumes me too much.
I find I hanker for my slim physique back in my 20’s but also respect what my body has been through since that age. I’m the biggest I’ve ever been, I guess cos of comfort eating, stress, loss, grief and just plain old age!
I tend to just soldier on in life and not dwell too much on past negative events. I’m quite gung-ho and will try new things.
I started doing Burlesque 4 and a half years ago and found I could really let myself go with it. I’ve met some fantastic people doing it and it is very empowering esp at 54 yrs old.
I like to give other women my age the confidence to do it too. I love the dressing up and the corsets and like to tell other women how it makes me feel.

I’m fairly ok with baring my breasts to people but I do get self-conscious about my big belly, that’s probably why I like corsets! Sucks it all in!


I am conscious of my age and do get concerned about the future and how to survive in our ever changing climate!


Lucy’s offering is “a little song, probably sung to a bluesy rhythm. It’s basically about someone calling me a sinner and my response to that.”
‘Sinner’ by Lucy White-Simpson August 2021
I’m a sinner don’t you know it
I’m a sinner so you say
What you think I do would take my breath away
I’m a sinner so you tell me
I’m a sinner so you say
I’m not what you think
Yeah I like a drink
I go about my business
Then disappear
You judge me but I don’t care.

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